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Sleeping with Head or Feet Facing Door

Is there a problem in halacha or minhag of sleeping with your head or feet facing the door?

Answer:

It is fine to sleep with one’s head facing the door. Concerning feet, please see below.

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Sources:

There is a custom not to sleep with one’s feet pointing towards the door, and it is said that the reason for this is that when a person who has passed away is lain awaiting burial, he is lain with his feet pointing towards the door of the room (see Gesher Hachaim I:3:2:2).

We do not wish to position ourselves when sleeping in the same position as the dead are positioned. As such, it is possible that this custom applies only when one is sleeping on the floor, and not if one is sleeping on a bed.

As to why the dead are lain with their feet pointing towards the door, this may be an extension of the custom to bury people in the cemetery with their feet pointing towards the entrance to the cemetery, which Chasam Sofer (vol 2, Y. D. 332) explains is done as an indication of the faith that we have that there will be Techiyas Hameisim (Resurrection of the Dead), as if to indicate that the dead will arise from their graves and leave the cemetery through the entrance to the cemetery.

There seems to be no reason not to sleep with one’s head towards the door.

If there is need to sleep with feet facing door, this is also permitted, and the custom above is by way of recommendation alone.

Concerning the best direction for placing a bed, see Shulchan Aruch, Orach chaim 3:6, Taz 5, Mishnah Berurah 11 and Aruch HaShulchan 13. The discussion is whether beds should be placed in the North-South direction or in the East-West direction, and no reference is made to the question of feet or head towards the door.

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  1. As a point of interest, the custom of the Temanim is to take a niftar out of the room head first.

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